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9Marks Explained : A Letter From Mark Dever

Six Ways to Help People Pray


Pretty much everyone would agree that prayer is an important part of the Christian life.  And pretty much everyone would agree that most Christians don’t pray as much or as well as they could.  Here are six ways you as a pastor can help your people become more faithful and enthusiastic in their prayer life:

1. Set aside a lot of time in your gatherings to pray.

We pay lip service to the importance of prayer, but in many of our churches the prayer time is quick and unfocused. The message we may be sending unwittingly is that prayer is not quite as important as other more immediately productive activities.Prayer requires discipline and as such extended periods of corporate prayer (5 minutes? 10 minutes?) may be difficult for your people. But like a muscle, the pain that comes with use will cause a lot of growth.

2. Pray different kinds of prayers in your gatherings.

Scripture is full of all sorts of different prayers.  Don’t just ask for the things you want God to do for you, lead your people in prayers of confession, praise, and invocation. Teach your people all sorts of different was to pray.

3. Pray big prayers.
Think beyond the hospital visitation list.  Pray prayers that reflect God’s sovereignty over the whole world.  Pray for the spread of the gospel in foreign nations; pray for an end to human trafficking worldwide; pray for religious freedoms to spring up in oppressive regimes.

4. Put work into your prayers.
Don’t get up there on Sunday and wing it; you wouldn’t do that with the sermon or with your music program.  Put some thought and effort into choosing subjects and words that will be helpful and clear. Don’t buy into the idea that spontaneity indicates sincerity and preparation indicates artifice.  

5. Tell your people that/how you are praying for them.
All pastors pray for their people (or at least, they should).  But not all congregations know that their pastors pray for them.  Take time to communicate with the members of your church (email, call, note) that you are praying for them.  It’s also nice to let them know how you are praying for them (“I was praying for you today, particularly that…”). It’s a simple gesture that encourages people and helps keep prayer for each other in the center of your church’s life.  

6. Give your people good resources.
There are a lot of good books on prayer out there.  The one that has most shaped my prayer life (and the one I give to church members the most) is D.A. Carson’s A Call to Spiritual Reformation.  In it, Carson looks at the prayers of the Apostle Paul recorded in Scripture and give guidance on using them as models for our prayers. If our generation doesn’t know how to pray as previous generations did, what better place for us to learn than from the Word of God?

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I pray a psalm per service. We read, sing, and then pray one psalm every service, paraphrasing the pastoral prayer for the psalm of that service.

That book you mentioned is available free on the Nook.

Excellent practical, to-the-point counsel Mike. Thank you! I've read Carson's book, and it greatly enriched my own prayers, especially those on behalf of my flock. I'm going to pass this on to our associate pastors, as we've been discussing the pastoral prayer and other aspects of prayer in church life. Thanks again for these good practical pointers.

Michael, how would you balance telling people you are praying for them with Jesus command to pray in private and not tell people about your prayer?

Good question. I understand that Jesus is warning us against religious performances for the sake of getting glory from others.

So I think we need to examine our hearts to see if we're wrongly motivated. But I don't think it's a prohibition against telling others that we're praying for them. After all, Paul tells the churches all the time about his prayers for them!

Jusus said, "Its enough just to say the lords paryer; God knows what your need are before you ask.

There are no need to tell peoples you are praying for them; you are not the one who are doing for them; it is God who are doing for them. When you pray for someone; you are acting accordance to God's words; if God didn't tell you to do it, you wouldn't know how to do it..

These are some really good points. Unfortunately, most pastors today don't take the time to let their congregations know that they are being prayed for personally. They will say it from the pulpit but not on a one on one level.


    There are things that most people do not realize their pastors do for them when they are butting in and prayer is one of them and it is actually the most important things.

Was greatly encouraged when my Pastor called this morning to let me know he is praying for me/my family. It means a lot to me/my family that our Pastor is taking time to mention us by name in prayer and is concerned for what we are going through.

We know the disciples were praying for the church because it is mentioned several times, along with the prayers they prayed, throughout the New Testament. The prayers they prayed for the church body are very uplifting and great examples for us to go by when interceding for others.

I thoroughly recommend Paul Miller's "A Praying Life." We worked through that in our Wednesday night prayer meeting.

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