How Can We Care for Our Church Members During COVID-19?
May 1, 2020
May 1, 2020
Editor’s note: We asked pastors how they’d been serving their people since the pandemic disrupted regular ministry. This list will be updated as more ideas come in. For more resources related to COVID-19, visit our new site: COVID-19 & The Church.
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I live and serve in the Detroit area where the pandemic has had a particularly big impact. Despite the severity of the disease and the strictness of our quarantine, I am very encouraged by my congregation’s response to this crisis and their care for one another. Here are some of the things that we have done in order to encourage and care for our church.
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During this difficult season when regular “pastoral check-points” such as public gatherings, equipping classes, and small groups are cancelled and postponed, local church elders must resist the temptation to become fixated upon the “business” of leading—with its various technical, financial, and administrative challenges—at the expense of the businessof leading, that is, to knowand carewell for each soul in their temporarily scattered flock.
Given the effort church leaders will need to put forward to care for their members in this season, elders might consider tabling typical ministry issues in order to devote themselves more fully to (virtual) visitation and soul care. For example, in non-pandemic times, our elders meet together every other week and rotate between “issue-centric” and “member-centric” meetings, with the latter being devoted entirely to updating one another on specific members with whom we visited and praying for each member individually.
During COVID-19, however, we postponed discussions and decisions on as many non-essential, non-time-sensitive issues as possible and turned all of our meetings into member-centric meetings. In doing so, we’ve nearly tripled our member visitations. This practice helps us know the condition of our flock and care for their souls until our public gatherings and additional pastoral check-points are restored.
When identifying prospective elders in our church, we pray for, encourage, and test godly men who are growing in spiritual influence (as disciplers) and ministerial competence (as teachers and shepherds). We want to see if they are men who genuinely love God’s Word and God’s people or if they simply love being seen as one who loves these things. Pandemics have a good way of revealing the motivations of would-be (and current) leaders.
When the spotlights are off, small groups are cancelled, and classrooms are empty, which men continue to pursue the spiritual good of their brothers and sisters discreetly and on their own initiative? Who are the men who don’t need a platform to open their Bibles and pray with fellow members? Which men have shown a mind to pursue not only the saints they enjoy, but also those who are difficult—not only the well-known, mature, and influential, but especially the fringy and immature? Surely COVID-19 will reveal much about our churches, including would-be elders.
Brother-pastor, let me encourage you to lookand listen for such men. Should you find any, invest your time in training and equipping them. Invite them to accompany you on visitations. Train them from the wealth of 9Marks resources in person (safely distanced, of course) or over regular video calls. You might give specific attention to excellent works on elder-ministry by Jeremy Rinne and Phil Newton. Strengthenthe work these men are already instinctively doing. When the COVID-19 dust settles, it won’t be men who merely loved the long-since vanished stages and spotlights that your flock will follow. It’ll be shepherds. May our Lord raise up many in these days!
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We call this “Elder-Led prayer.” The lead pastor will give a brief update on the current thinking of the elders in regards to member care and where the church is. Sometimes we take questions from the congregation. After a brief time of updates, elders transition to pre-selected prayer topics that members have been pre-assigned to pray for. We spend time together praying through those topics and then break out into smaller Zoom video groups to check in with one another and head out.
Members sign up for slots on our calendar to have pastoral visitations. This is a brief, 30-minute session for elders to ask members specific questions about how they are doing in their personal lives and how they are doing in their discipling relationships. Elders pray for members on the spot and give any guidance on making the most of their time during this season.
We have used Slack for a few years to communicate as a church. The platform allows for us to send out announcements; every day, the lead pastor sends out five thoughts/points of reflection, complete with recommended resources to be reading or listening to during this season.
Other elders share PDF resources of material they are reading through or leading their families through. This happens multiple times throughout the week (2 or 3 times) to keep the congregation engaged over various topics.
Every Saturday, we put out a family worship guide to help members worship the Lord in their homes with some structure. The guide features a song to sing with lyrics, a list of five things to pray for, a psalm to read aloud, a brief explanation of the Scripture with a little commentary, a model prayer for that psalm, and three sections of questions: 1) questions for family 2) questions for Fellowship Groups, and 3) questions for Discipleship Groups.
They include a note, kid books (if there are kids), and a TP roll—just to say “We love and miss you!”
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Based in downtown Munich, Germany, I serve a church with 375 members together with an Associate Pastor and a pastoral trainee who is about to become our youth pastor. In addition, we have three more trainees and two part-time admin staff.
Germany has been under lockdown since mid-March. Here’s what we’ve done to serve our members:
Here’s what we’ve done not strictly for our members:
On May 4, public gatherings will be allowed with very strict conditions. We can have maximum 1-hour meetings for maximum 50 people, with face masks, social distancing of 6 feet apart, and no singing.
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COVID-19 has affected the way elders shepherd their congregations. The situation calls for elders to find ways to oversee and care for the members the Lord has placed under their care. Here are five ways that can be done.
Make the most of all the technology available to you and proclaim the Word of God. You do not need to live stream the church service, simply send out sermons and bible studies. “Preach the word” is Paul’s rallying call to Timothy and by extension to all under-shepherds.
With the extra time, you may have on your hands, pray—and then pray some more. Pray through the membership directory and encourage members to do so as well. We need to be reminded that praying is doing something about an issue, even if it may not seem like it.
Encourage the heads of the family to lead worship and disciple those under their care. Some may be clueless about what to do, equip and encourage them. Covid 19 could just lead to a revival of family worship.
Use whatever avenues are available to you to stay connected with the members. Let them know you are praying for them and are available in whatever way possible. Call, text, and email church members. Ask them how you can be praying for them. Loneliness will be a struggle for some, stay in touch.
Every crisis presents opportunities. In one way or the other, believers will have numerous opportunities to share and display the gospel to neighbors, friends, and family. Set the example by seizing opportunities that come your way and encourage church members to do likewise.