In this episode of Priscilla Talk, Jenny, Keri, and Erin reflect candidly on the joys and hardships of friendship as a pastor’s wife.

They explore the tension of being known and sometimes misunderstood, the sting of broken confidences, and the deep blessing of gospel-rooted friendships. You’ll hear stories of encouragement, seasons of loneliness, and wisdom for cultivating faithful relationships inside and outside the church. Whether you’re in ministry or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers comfort, clarity, and counsel from women walking this road with faith.

Topics Discussed

[02:00] Joys and Sorrows of Church Friendships
Celebrating dear friends—and grieving those who’ve left.

[04:30] Isolation and Feeling Unknown
Why loneliness is surprisingly common among pastors’ wives.

[07:00] Pedestals and Perceptions
Misunderstandings that create distance in relationships.

[10:00] Transparency and Guardedness
The tension between honesty and discretion in ministry life.

[14:00] Learning to Share Wisely
What oversharing taught us—and how to grow in discernment.

[17:00] Finding the Right People
Friendships that blossom through suffering and patience.

[23:00] The Friend Who Sticks Closer
How loneliness drives us deeper into friendship with Christ.

[28:00] Encouragement from Scripture
Praying for wisdom, fruitfulness, and deeper friendships.

[30:00] Cultivating Friendships Intentionally
Practical ways to foster relationships inside and outside the church.

[36:00] Discipleship & Friendship
How mentoring relationships can grow into lasting sisterhood.

[39:00] Couples’ Friendships & Ministry Load
Navigating relational fatigue and making space for rest.

[42:00] The Gift of Fellow Pastor’s Wives
Why pastors’ wives need one another—and where to connect.

[44:00] A Word of Thanks
Reflections on the friendship behind this podcast.

Resources Mentioned

Friendship with God by Mike McKinley – A recommended read for anyone feeling isolated or wanting to deepen their relationship with the Lord.

Feed My Sheep: Pastor’s Wives Conference – Held annually in Atlanta and now expanding internationally.