How do pastors know what hills are worth dying on?

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No doubt questions like this must be answered on a case by case basis, but here are seven general areas in which pastors may be called upon to stake their job:

What tips do you have for dealing with bad leaders that you inherit in a new pastorate?

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Pray.  Pray for wisdom. Pray for humility. Pray for unity between you and your church’s other leaders. Pray that God would work in their hearts. Preach the Bible. All genuine change in a church comes as God works through his Word. Pray that God would use your teaching of his Word to change the hearts of your leaders.

How should you deal with a bad statement of faith, church covenant, or church constitution that you inherit in a new pastorate?

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It depends on your circumstances. But here are four different tactics that you might find helpful.

What should an installation service seek to accomplish?

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In a nutshell, an installation service should clarify and underscore the responsibility the pastor has toward the church and the responsibility the church has toward the pastor.

What are some practical ways for a new pastor to get to know his church and its community?

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Learn everything you can about your people. Get to know them by name. Learn how they became Christians, what their experience at the church has been like, and what they are struggling with and encouraged by in the church.

What are the most important things for a young pastor to do?

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Preach the Word. The single most important thing a young pastor must do is preach God’s Word. Everything begins here. God’s Word is what converts sinners and sanctifies saints (1 Thess. 1:5; Jn. 17:17). God’s Word is what brings health and growth and godly change (1 Thess. 2:13). Therefore, faithful expositional preaching of God’s Word must be a young pastor’s first priority.

How can I do seminary well?

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Join a church. Remember that the local church, not seminary, is God’s primary means for proclaiming the gospel, building up the saints, and preparing you for ministry (Eph. 4:11-16). Use your time at seminary as an opportunity to grow in your ministry and involvement in the local church, not to put the local church on the back burner.

Are regular devotions important for a pastor?

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Jesus himself withdrew from ministering to huge crowds so that he could pray alone (Luke 5:12-16). The apostle Paul made time to pray for churches near and far (Rom. 1:9-10, 1 Cor. 1:4, Eph. 1:16, Phil. 1:4, Col. 1:3). But in case the examples of Jesus and Paul aren’t enough, here are a few more reasons why pastors should spend daily, personal time in the Word and prayer. 

What are some practical ways for a pastor to love his children?

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Have deliberate, weekly one-on-one time with each of your children, probably to include playing, reading scripture, or praying. Date your daughters. Leave the church at church so dad can be dad at home. Take a child with you on visits or short trips. Take an interest in what your children enjoy doing.

What are some practical ways for a pastor to love his wife?

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When a church interviews you for the position of pastor, explain that they are hiring you and not your wife (the Bible says nothing about elders’ wives). When the church asks what she will do, explain that she intends to join the church and be a member, just like everyone else. Help guard her heart from the church’s extra expectations of her. Give her space to define her own role in the church.

What are some practical ways for a pastor to love his family?

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Take the initiative to establish a plan for family worship, then follow the plan! Come home at the exact time you say you will be home and prepare your heart to serve your family, not be served. Take responsibility for your children’s education and discipline—don’t leave it to your wife to figure out.

What are some practical ways a pastor can train younger men for ministry?

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Share your pulpit (carefully). Look for ways to give doctrinally and pastorally reliable younger men in your congregation opportunities to preach and teach—even if they are not practiced public speakers.

Why should pastors personally disciple men who are potential church leaders?

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Scripture commands it. In 2 Timothy 2:2 Paul writes, “What you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses entrust to faithful men who will be able to teach others also.” Since 1 Timothy was written not merely for Timothy, but for us all (Rom. 15:4, 2 Tim. 3:16-17), every pastor of a local church should train other men to be teachers in the church.

Should elders be ordained?

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The answer depends on what’s meant by “ordain.”

Should elders have terms or serve for life?

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The Bible is silent on this issue, which means that wisdom and a prudent application of broader biblical principles must guide our decision.

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